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I am here to give you a glimpse of what the next decade will look like. You will pursue experiences more than meaning. You want to do everything, right away. The inclination is understandable; instant gratification is the name of the game these days. You want to squeeze every ounce of living out of life. But here is what you might want to Desperate woman looking looking for sluts about how this ends.
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You are not quite sure what really matters to you anymore. There is good news ahead. When you reach 30, you will realize that you have your whole life ahead to continue to explore these questions, that 30 is not the end gr your life as you know it.
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You are still going to see a lot, experience a lot, do a lot.
You are in for a heck of a ride over the next decade. You will have your share of disastrous romantic entanglements. You will think you are in love half a dozen times, and feel incapable of giving or receiving love a few more times than that.
You will wonder, what in the heck am I looking for?! You will feel the euphoria of whirlwind romances, the havr where the dopamine rush of pure attraction and desire takes down all rational instincts honed over years of our evolutionary history. You will also find yourself in rime sensible attachments, the ones that feel safe, secure and difficult to argue with.
Unfortunately, over the next decade, you have to go through the crests and the troughs of love. You have to get your heart shattered into pieces and then meet people who, at best, can only be the temporary Band-Aid over Adult singles dating in Holliday splinters. Want 20 yr old wanting to have a good time know how this turns 20 yr old wanting to have a good time But you will settle into yourself.
You can be a better version of yourself but you have to get comfortable with yourself on your worst day. And then you will ol someone who you spark with and over time, you both will decide that you at your worst is not a deal breaker. Havr you are open to figuring it out together, to being companions on the journey ahead.
This person will by no means be everything you wanted them to be. You will realize over the next decade that perfection is a mirage and a unworthy goal. Sure, you have friends, and people like you and you have a good time with them but you will stay short of real meaningful connections.
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So why go down that route? You will travel, bounce around, have adventures, pick up acquaintances along the way and drop them by the wayside when you are Treichlers-PA young milf to move on.
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But, you will wake up one day somewhere around 30 and realize you are alone. Not just physically alone, but bordering on lonely. You kept it so light to avoid being burdened but you are now left with a void.
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A void that only real intimacy can fill. The kind of intimacy where you surprise and disappoint each other, where you show up even if you are inconvenienced.
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You will realize that true intimacy builds trust and belonging. You will want to belong, not to get comfortable, but to know that you have a home somewhere in this big, vast universe. You will do some great things.
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But when you are back in your apartment after a long day at work, you will be too tired to do anything. You find yourself reaching for your phone, contemplating between the unhealthy Thai or Mexican takeout, and you will know that you are surrounded by a blind fog.
It will cling to you as you walk around. It will lift with the euphoria of an adventure, with the dopamine rush of a new experience, but then it will come back down to blanket you. You will mistake aimlessness for spontaneity.
You will think being impulsive gives you your edge.
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If you lose that, you lose everything you are about. But you know, deep down, you have no anchor, you gopd no sense of purpose.
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You are 32 now. I have realized life hangs in the balance of it all. That one day you are up, one day you are down. Maybe my purpose is to be the best version of myself on most days.
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To make choices everyday that allow that to happen, to maximize the good, forgive myself for the bad and accept all the parts that make up my whole. Making these healthy choices will give you some clarity, and then some more. It will lead to inconvenient but comforting intimacy and a forgiving and Woman seeking nsa Hundred West Virginia relationship with yourself and those around you.
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