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Many people could have reached the level of intimacy and commitment they desired ad they had only received the patience, compassion, and understanding of the other. Yet many people are childish when it comes to matters of the heart.
Many do not have the patience to work on a relationship if it does not fulfill all of their expectations as quickly as they would like. As a result, you have breakups, people longing for each other, people with pain in their hearts, when simple compassion eettle understanding could have brought them all they desired over time. Many people end relationships because they do not understand that friendship is the key — that they need to build trust and enjoy the company of the other without all the formal dating or courtship behaviors.
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No matter what society tells you, no matter what anybody fet you, if it is true and right in your heart, then it is true and right for you. That is being your own best friend as well as a best friend with the one you love but are not formally committed to. Commit to the genuine truth in your heart.
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It is very rare to have someone in your life who Reac be there for you as a true friend; this is a gift. Relationships are testing grounds; they test the bond, the endurance, the respect for oneself and for the other. How can you expect someone to make a lifelong commitment to you if they do not first see that you are capable of meeting the challenges that arise during the early stages of a relationship?
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And when you do seek within for a solution, you will have all you truly desire. If you do not, then you shall live with regret. You can choose Rad run from one empty relationship to another, year after year, or you can choose to realize that fulfillment comes when the bonds of love and friendship are combined, and that those bonds are far too valuable and precious to discard once you have found the one person who causes Reda to turn yourself around.
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Am i a foolish man to think this way? Should I just commit and marry her or do you feel my jealousy will get the better of me eventually and ruin it? Have you ever experienced a couple to return to each other after a long period of seperation and working out their problems to live a happy ever after life or is that just in movies?
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I am currently 23 and just got into my first relationship with someone 8 years older. I really like him and i guess i should give this relationship a shot and i said yes when he confessed.
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Please advice for this situation. You deserve this, we all do. I truly send you all my best with a prayer that you DO meet the man you are destined to be with. I did asked him to end this relationship with me. He request for 2 weeks break.
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