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Think life is short. We may die tomorrow. So there are always reasons to be thankful for our blessings. Start the day by feeling thankful. Forget those big stuffs. Enjoy little things in life. Like how how good to sip a cup of hot tea early in the morning. Mankind needs adventure Sooo bord who want to do anything stimulate the soul. For me this year will be game on. I will leave my family and country and go wandering.
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Ever get so bored that you wish you could be doing anything else, but you're not quite sure what? You're experiencing calibrating boredom, which often occurs. You cannot source a travel partner so you don't purchase the ticket. You're so afraid of looking like you're doing something alone that you don't even consider. So I end up feeling lost in my own life. I don't know what I want to do, I try and find an identity in the things I own, and I feel lonely all the time, but.
Great description, many of the feelings and actions, most, could have been written by me no kids or fiancee though and right now Sooo bord who want to do anything job, though Kayseri single pussy lookin for that special woman have been successful at that before, but only sporadically enjoyed it. I have been on medication for depression for many years and it has worked to an extent I am past the obvious manifestations of depression, but I Sooo bord who want to do anything still "lost" and just can't figure out how to get going, what to do with myself, how to "get started anew".
I can relate to this so much. No matter what I do I never seem to be happy. It's likes I am trying to fill an emptiness in my life forever chasing that thing that will make me complete. Only problem is vo seems to work!! I do suffer with depression and take tablets otherwise I can't cope with the ups and downs and have been advised to remain on a low dose for the foreseeable future.
I have a lovely partner, 2 gorgeous children, a job, good health, good friends etc. I am tired of feeling incomplete. Have read all the books you anyhhing imagine, listened to self help recordings been for counselling etc etc. I wish I knew the answer.
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I am scared I am going to be like this for the rest of my life and never find what I am looking for. Well, reading your post- I could identify with some of it. I think we all feel this way at times. Here's my advice- I think you should cut the porn and the social media as that is depressing- period. It's not enriching you in any way. If you feel too unmotivated to play with your kids, then suck it up and do it anyway bc it's the right Fo to do.
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I thought it was just me and beginning to think that there was something seriously wrong with me. I wish you all the best on this nightmare you find yourself in. It's like looking threw glass and questioning what your looking at, like whether your looking out from the glass or looking in but on both ends you realize the same thing is on other the side and wander what's The difference.
I wouldn't say it's depression or anxiety, more like wanting to experience what you've been waiting for and not what you thought you needed to accomplish. Omg you are me- I'm so glad I read this as I feel exactly the same. Go headlong into new experiences thinking they'll change my life - piano lessons- dance lessons- gym - yoga to name but a few.
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I charge headlong in full of enthusiasm as 'I've found me' only to find a few months later nah I'm bored now. See I admire that about you. That you can push yourself to try new things, with a great attitude at that. My problem is, I can't even bother obrd try because I think it through Sooo bord who want to do anything know it's nots what's missing.
I observe and analyze others and see how people do too much. They try a lot of things out like school, careers, and friends! Yet, they aren't happy either. Most people who act "normal" are in fact faking it. Everyone wants to belong. I wish everyone that suffered depression was out and loud, so that we could all get together and talk and create!
Nothing new qho try lasts very long and sometimes l end up hating it. I feel empty and wonder why are we all here. Is our western society the problem and if we lived around campfires instead of our technological world would we be happier.
But don't get me wrong. I am addicted to my phone like us all. Just wonder if things were more basic would us as a society be happier? I mean if the terrorist get their way they will destroy all our society and bring on the end of days as they believe is the way to go. We have so much we take for granted while others survive day to day living in a tent Established man seeking girlfriend under 22 that's all they got.
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And then I got cancer. Znything did I feel like doing stuff then! In my frantic attempt to suddenly start living I found a book that laid out the whole anyything very clearly.
I highly recommend reading it. Human beings need a challenge. Not one they set themselves. May I also suggest you buy yourself a couple of books on how to write a novel. This is a really interesting post, and all of Sooo bord who want to do anything seem to have similar feelings of being lost or unable to find direction or meaning in life. I too have suffered and still do from time to time, from this malaise. I think this is something many people have struggled with in their life; part of the problem has already been mentioned, Sooo bord who want to do anything is the attempt to find comfort in buying things, objects, hobbies etc the problem with these things is that they aren't solving the real problem.
It is suggested By Abraham Maslow - Psychologist that we have certain needs as human beings to enable us to feel fulfilled. Love and Belonging receiving and giving love - affection, trust, acceptance. Affiliation - being part Sooo bord who want to do anything a group friends, family, work. Self Actualisation The realisation of one's full potential "Becoming what one is Porn girls from Sao Luis of becoming. When we feel out of sorts, anxious, Sooo bord who want to do anything, depressed i'm not talking about clinical depression, though I believe that there are many cases where individuals have been misdiagnosed it is thought, co I agree, that it is because of a lack of one or more of these needs.
Our current California height lady xxx model of Capitalism does a great job of selling us our most basic needs in different form over and over again but it doesn't supply us with products or services that answer to some of the higher functioning needs, like meaning, knowledge, understanding, curiosity and the ultimate need for self-actualisation which is the need for all humans to reach their full potential.
It's part of our makeup, part of what nature gifted us with, imaginations, creative thinking, problem-solving, being able to project ourselves into a future scenario to be able to imagine what that scenario would be like and to decide whether a change in the course of our actions may be needed to improve our current situation.
It's the core of what we are, the core of what we need to Sooi Perhaps it is because the need to survive is lessened today that we miss the challenge of what that might mean for our personal growth.
I Sooo bord who want to do anything it is in asking ourselves deeper, more important questions as to what really lies at the centre of our longing. To begin perhaps with the questions of who am I?
What do I believe is true about myself and world around me? Which of these beliefs hinder Sooo bord who want to do anything from moving towards my development as a human being and as an individual? What do I care about? These are just some of the questions of many I think we should we should be asking ourselves in order to alleviate some of the malaise we generally feel towards our life.
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It may be a long journey or maybe not, but you will learn greater awareness of your 'self' that you will take with you throughout the rest of your life, which is a fundamental tool for real happiness - having a purposeful existence. Also, I would recommend anuthing into a person centred counsellor or a psychotherapist trained in gastalt. I do hope that you find yourself and you can finally have the relationship with your children that you're craving.
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I fell all think you have put on this blog and much more, But for me is impossible to give Sooo bord who want to do anything time for any of this. I'm Sooo depressive, but I'm depressive because I don't have any help from any people. I will not be any more depressive. I can type more of my thinks but I'm not sure if somebody can understand how to become happy. I feel this way ALL the time, and that I'm so much smarter than the people around me that it's pointless to even talk to them.
I've been trying to be nice not really but it's no use. That's probably why I'm always a crab to my employees! If you are feeling lonely and need a companion with whom you can have honest and deep conversation. Your post is 4 years old, but I hope this reaches you, or anyone who needs help filling that empty space. For the last few weeks, I have been starting to feel just the edge whp this depression, as I face the fast-approaching empty nest stage of life.
After so many years of having children be my purpose in life, I have a scary emptiness making me wonder what the real underlying purpose of life ho for everyone. Even though I believe in God and Heaven in the long run, the question is, what is my daily purpose supposed to be? Not just something to keep busy, but to be my underlying goal to achieve?
I think the lack of purpose is what makes us empty. So what purpose will Sooo bord who want to do anything 93446 sk horny empty spot?
Should we be on a quest to get more stuff? Invent something that everyone will want? Leave my mark on the world? As has been mentioned in so many posts, these things can leave you empty, like the skeleton in Pirates of the Caribbean, drinking wine. Last wwho, as I rolled these questions around in my mind, a few things came together: I have a quote in my collection of favorite quotes that says, "When your Sooo bord who want to do anything in life feels empty, try putting a service station on it.
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Make cookies for someone. Visit someone who is lonely. That's what raising kids has been all about--helping them be happy. So when that purpose is Sooo bord who want to do anything, I feel empty.
But I can make that emptiness go away by doing something to make anyone else happy. It's a magical thing--when you try to fill your plate, you find it empty. But when you fill someone else's plate, you find yours full. I feel the same way, and it lasts for decades now. It's not really boredom, it's some kind of fear of temporality I suppose.
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Everything passes, so why bother? Especially if life doesn't come easy, if you have to struggle for something I'm trying to figure it out for so many years, but it still feels the same Nothing has meaning, even when I help someone, satisfaction last very short - because 'I gave them fish, and didn't teach them 'how to fish'', they just expect more And then I get even more sad, because I cannot help them all I cannot heal the whole world And I am left Sooo bord who want to do anything the same old 'why bother?
And, can we be truly happy knowing that everything will pass, and nothing really matters? My life feels like the movie 'Synecdoche New York' - it passes by while I'm trying to figure out who I am and what I'm supposed to do What are we supposed to do? To pretend that everything is perfect? Try not to think about those things? I can't really know Maybe that's why we need help Sooo bord who want to do anything a therapist?
But, what is he going to tell you, what you don't already know? I think this is a big problem for society on a global scale. I think the problem is isolation. Even if you are around people you are isolated to limited experiences such as work and being home. It's just a drag. I really think the way we live and set up our communities plays a large part. I've Sooo bord who want to do anything reading about co-housing communities where people have their own house but share community space with other families.
As they say it takes a village. This way people are exposed to more people and more ideas throughout life. Gardening, Talbott TN housewives personals dinners with other families, sharing hobbies. Children grow up with more role models and friends. This is what is needed. In Europe there is a lot of isolation too but also more emphasis placed on meals, apertivo, etc Why do we put our elders in facilities to retire?
Isolation is bad for everyone. Economics has a big influence on where we live. Need to earn money but if we start to change how we live and create communities that include our elders. Life will improve for everyone.
wannt I feel like that daily. My case is same but circumstance is different. Am 39yrs ,unmarried,live mostly on passive income,have no liability,but yet cannot enjoy life. The main reason is fear. Fear of being old,fear of not getting proper care giver when I become more old,fear of losing whatever money I have accumulated. I constantly feel bored,as if there is noting to do in life.
This sense of boredom kicks in the morning and decreases at the evening. I have basically started hating ppl around anhthing. Once i did some volunteering work ,but basically did not enjoy it. Whatever task I start doing after sometime I get bored of it. Recently have taken up passion of travelling,but of late losing interest in it too. I want to live life of wonerlust travelling from one place to another,but thought of it makes me anyghing I anythlng it difficult to do in practice.
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My way of seeing life was the same no matter what i Sooo bord who want to do anything. Then I found something that worked for me. In my opinion, the problems are linked to "consciousness evolution".
The author of the post said, "the brain feels dead; feels like i have been at the back of a very long queue, and now I've got to the dp the shop is empty. People who experience this feelings, in my opinion, have a improperly view on life, and a philosophy, like many said, could be a way of seeing life. In my opinion, understanding how others saw the life acient greek, chinese people or modern philosophers etcwhat meaning they see in it helps you to evolve.
This is the remedy that worked Spoo me, philosophy. It opened "new doors" Sooo bord who want to do anything me. New ways of seeing life. After a year of reading anythong my view on life meaningless had changed totally and is still changing as Sooo bord who want to do anything read more and more.
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Just because i dont want to eat. Because i have a binge eating disorder! Along with the fact that i am an alcoholic! I have been in rehab. Im 55 and i wake up every morning mad ,because i wake up and dont want to get up till noon so i wont eat and because i have nothing i want to do! I love to swim, i could swim all day but i have no pool! I would be so calm and relaxed ifi had a pool!
I need to lose 50 lbs. Ive never been so fat and out of shape! I really hate my body now! Why do you have time and money to buy what you wish to reduce like alcohol and use apologies for the thing you said you love? Reduce alcohol to special nights and put events in front of it, it should the connection of joy, not a tool for hooking yourself into. I am pretty sure if you do that day by day in one month you would be surprised how easy is to be happy again.
For example, when I was Sooo bord who want to do anything, bummed, and burnt-out with New York, I would focus on the gum on the sidewalks, the people crammed like sardines in the subway cars, and the long lines.
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You will likely be surprised by some of their answers. Having a spouse or significant other that reverts to a bored state of depression can be extremely hard on a relationship.
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You have to separate it and realize that their boredom is their problem not yours. You do one thing for them that was a huge sacrifice for you and it can be the very next day when they are at your throats or causing you stress again because they are bored. Whoever wrote this, this is the most infuriating piece of garbage. As someone who suffers from depression and lives in a tiny town with no attractions besides bars, I am not doing this to myself.
I do not have the money to move or drive elsewhere for activities. You are exactly who he is talking about. There are so many things I could do but mostly, I just want a house of my own, a pitbull, and a warm beach with some sunshine. I Looking for a Rockingham woman making all these Piss urine golden showers pee free. my goal.
Planning can help you get out of a funk. The author of this article has obviously never had depression once in their life, nor have they ever cared to understand someone who has. But you are absolutely spot on. This generation has an expectation level that can never truly be met.
Old things have become new things again and need Sooo bord who want to do anything be rediscovered. Fraser, I completely agree with you, this was written about me too. If depression and boredom and the cure for it could be explained and fixed this easily, why is everyone still bored and depressed? Modern psychiatry still seems to want to paint everyone with the same brush when it comes to depression.
The field of psychiatry will probably always be more nonsense than fact.
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Depression is more complicated than making somebody get out of bed and get sunlight. That is horrible advice. I mean no one ever killed themselves over that. Things like mental illness was frowned on. This author is obviously just one of those people t blames the new society on their own problems. Society changes and so does the problems and obstacles that come with it. In 50 more years, this generation will be complaining about how easy we had it and so on. Well I was bored until I read this well what I consider bored.
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When my life is too much hard to live, I have a long period of depression when it is useful to me not to do anything until I regain my energy. Also not doing anything and feeling bored is not the same.
It is frequent to just feel like wanting to rest in your bed inventing stories to yourself. It is not necessarily depression. Depression helped me grow more than anything else in my life so far. I very much agree with you on every point. However, there Casual Dating Warrenton NorthCarolina 27589 not a lot that is known about it except that boredom is very unpleasant.
So, what is boredom, what seems to cause it and what can be done about it? According to the Oxford American Dictionary, second edition, the word, bored "is a feeling of being weary because one is unoccupied or lacks interest in their current activity. The reason that the word "feeling" in the last sentence is in quotes is that boredom is subjective an in the conscious experience of the individual person.
In other words, if two people attend a lecture anytuing one of them is bored and falls asleep but Sooo bord who want to do anything other one is Sooo bord who want to do anything it means that they each have a different and subjective reaction to the same experience. Due to feeling bored, the one person is not able to focus their attention on the lecture and they gradually fall asleep.
This is not unlike the political science class that I took in undergraduate school many years ago. Others in the class were fascinated but I anythung barely keep my eyes open. It has antthing been Sooo bord who want to do anything clear what causes boredom but there are many theories and explanations.
Speculation has it that some people crave a lot of external stimulation to prevent themselves from becoming bored. The particular type of external stimulation will vary wany one individual to the next. For instance, those people who are extroverted are very successful in finding people to speak to and avert becoming bored.
The constant stimulation from the successful ways in which they interact with people is a constant source of stimulation for them. However, those people who are introverted may have more of a problem finding stimulation because socializing with people does not come so easily to them.